Dating sites for Trekkies, vampire lovers and just about anyone else

Originally published July 3, 2016

By Ian Sherr

Candice is really, really pretty. She has big, brown eyes; thick, dark hair that flows below her shoulders; cheekbones that could cut glass; and a curvaceous figure that has no trouble attracting guys.

Despite that, Candice joined dating site, where she and 4.5 million other “beautiful, successful people fuel mutually beneficial relationships,” according to its website. Too subtle? Then consider its tagline: “12 girls for each guy…spoil them and they spoil you back.”

Over the past three years, Candice, 26, has dated a real-estate developer, a venture capitalist and an attorney. They’ve covered her annual $40,000 tuition at Villanova University’s school of law, taken her on trips and given her up to $5,000 for a monthly allowance.

She’s not a call girl. She’s just a woman whose rich boyfriends pay her expenses.

“The concept of a man taking care of a woman dates back to ancient times,” says Candice, who asked us not to use her last name. “It’s no different for a woman who’s home taking care of the kids.”

SeekingArrangement is not just another, Tinder or eHarmony, which serve up a one-size-fits-all approach to dating. Candice’s site of choice specifically matches “generous sugar daddies” with “attractive sugar babies.” It’s just one example of online dating services geared to singles with specialized tastes.

Looking for someone to share meals sans gluten? Try pairs up folks who like to dress up as anthropomorphic animals. Star Trek fanatics looking to do the Vulcan mind-meld thing can search for true Trekkie love on Creatures of the night can peruse Vampire Passions, Vampersonals or Date Vampires (tagline: “Fall into the Darkness”). And the name pretty much sums up who you’ll find on the site.

No matter what turns you on, there’s an online site somewhere out there catering to people like you. And why not, when the Internet has become the go-to dating spot. More than 90 percent of America’s 54.3 million singles have tried online dating, according to Statistic Brain Research Institute. And 64 percent of all singles say finding someone with common interests is their top criterion in a partner.

Finicky daters

What is it about the Internet and cats? Typing “cats” in YouTube gives you 13.2 million videos, ranging from cats being funny to cats being jerks to cats just being…cats.

That’s why a dating site for cat lovers just made sense to Sonny Crane, who founded “Cat owners are a bit more finicky,” he says. “Do you want to meet someone who doesn’t like cats? No.”

But does finding a soul mate really depend on meeting someone who adores cats as much as you do? That depends on how deeply that common interest matters to you, says Aditi Paul, an assistant professor at Pace University, who studies online dating.

“If you’re choosing someone based on something that’s core to you, then by all means,” she says. Such specialized dating sites “make the idea of revealing yourself to your partner a lot easier than on a generic website.”


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Be warned, though: The mutual enjoyment of, say, Star Trek, Nascar racing or Russian literature doesn’t make that person your perfect mate. “There is actually not much evidence that [people with common interests] are happier with their partners,” says Harry Reis, a psychology professor at the University of Rochester in New York.

Jaime, a 40-year-old graphic artist in Texas, is hoping to find someone who doesn’t mind her spending 10 hours or so a week playing World of Warcraft. Her previous relationship ended because her partner resented the time she’d spend playing with friends. “It’s like a bowling league,” she says. “My guild, they’re like my family.”

She now belongs to, co-founded by Casey Tebo four years ago when he realized there’s a growing group of adults who love playing everything from Clash of Clans to Call of Duty. “We wanted to create a tasteful dating site for mature gamers,” he says, referring to the over-18 set.

For her part, Jaime hopes her next boyfriend doesn’t want her to participate in player-versus-player games. It brings out her ultracompetitive side. “It makes my blood boil,” she says. “I turn into a cursing, cussing demon and it is unfortunate.”

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